Excuses, Excuses

Emmanuel Mbakwe

We live in a world populated by people who are full of excuses. There is always an excuse; spurious, wild, crazy, even the most unimaginable drip from the lips of people we know. Like the people who give them excuses come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. No offence intended!
This is nothing new. In the book of Exodus we read of one of the greatest leaders in the history of ancient Israel. Moses, a man who was haunted by past failure and perceptions of his personal limitations, gave God a shed load of excuses.
God had called and commissioned him to go and bring deliverance to the children of Israel who were enslaved in the land of Egypt. Moses looked at himself, looked at the size and scale of the task that he was being asked to undertake and went into a massive overload of excuses. First, he said to God that he couldn’t speak, he wasn’t eloquent; God dealt with that. His second excuse was that the Pharaoh wouldn’t listen to him; again God responded to him. Thirdly, he turned his attention to the people he was supposed to be leading, his own people, the children of Israel, saying to God that they may not pay attention to him. Again God dealt with his objection. Students of the Bible know of course that Moses went on to be a great leader, one of the greatest in the history of the Jewish people.

I wonder where you are, if you are a Christian, in your walk wit God. What has God asked you to do? Are you making excuses about your background, education, lack of skills, knowledge, or whatever it is that you see as the major limitation? As God helped Moses, He will help you. You are able to do the job, accomplish the assignment and fulfil your destiny, not in your strength, but in the strength God has promised to give to you.

Perhaps you are not a Christian and you are reading this article, and through several channels, means and avenues you know that God has been speaking to you about the state of your life; yet over the years and months you have been making excuses. I feel led to challenge you strongly to respond to what God is saying to you today because, as you do not know what tomorrow holds.
Excuses, excuses- don’t let them get in the way of what God wants to do in or accomplish through your life.
Copyright Emmanuel Mbakwe 2012©
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Repentance – a change of mind and direction

Emmanuel Mbakwe

One of the verses in the Bible that has always intrigued me is Luke 15:17. Bible students among us will know that it forms part of the parable of the Prodigal son which Jesus told. This parable forms part of the single answer trilogy of parables that Jesus gave which Jesus gave in response to a charge by the Pharisees and scribes that he was eating with sinners.

 

The details of the parable are not the central point of this piece. What is important is the key turning point in the life of one of the three main characters in the story, the Prodigal son. We read that having squandered all that he had, the young man came to the moment that marked the beginning of a re-defined destiny for him. The relevant segment reads: “But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! (Luke 15:17). That was the turning point that led to his turnaround. The Bible word for this point and place of change is repentance. It simply means a change of mind, which is then followed by a change of action as well as direction.

 

This is the starting point of a change of mind. It is the place of recognition or realisation. Often when we are involved in an activity or heading in a particular direction, and everything is seemingly going swimmingly well, the well-known refrain ‘if it isn’t broke, don’t fix it’, remains the cardinal principle that informs our action. However, change only comes when we recognise we are going in the wrong direction, with serious consequences up ahead, if we fail to take corrective measures. In Psalm 119:59-60, the psalmist makes this statement:’…I pondered the direction of my life and I turned to follow your laws. I will hurry without delay to obey your commands…’

 

That statement sums up what happened to the Prodigal son. What is evident is that he had come to a point and a place when the proverbial light bulbs came on in his head. He came to himself. He had come to the moment of personal insight. He realised had lived the life of a wastrel, run out of money and was barely surviving; sharing breakfast, lunch and dinner with pigs. He had come to the point of recognition. Sometimes the point of recognition is a process, a conscious process. At other times it is something that had been taking place. And then there is a moment of truth when, as it were, the light bulbs are switched on in our heads. Some call this the ‘ah-ha’ moment.

 

If recognition is to be meaningful, it must be followed by an act of will. When that happens, repentance has taken place. Repentance involves returning or finding fresh direction; the right direction. Then, and only then are we back on track to realise the ultimate purpose of our lives.

 

The question is what direction is your life heading? Is it going closer to God or away from Him? If it is away from Him, my prayer is that you will come to that place of recognition that leads to a change of mind and direction; the place of repentance.

 

The Bible message is that we all need to repent; ‘for all have sinned and fallen short of God’s glory’; ‘there is none righteous, no not one’. Our self will, pride, rebellion and sinful nature mean that we are walking away from God; going in the opposite direction to where He wants us to go. We need to repent; to know a change of mind, heart and direction. God’s call is that we should return to Him (Malachi 3:7; Zechariah 1:3). If we repent and confess Jesus as Saviour and Lord, He will forgive and receive us back. You can follow the example of the prodigal son and do exactly what he did. It begins with repentance – a change of mind and direction.

 

If you have read this article and you are not a Christian, I would like to invite you to receive Christ as Saviour and Lord in your life by praying this prayer:

‘God in heaven, I acknowledge that I am sinner and deserve to be punished for all the wrongs I have done. I am truly sorry. Thank you for sending your Son Jesus to this world. I believe He lived, died and rose again for my sins. I repent of all past sins and ask you to forgive me because Jesus. I confess and ask Jesus to come into my life and be my Saviour and Lord. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me to obey you and lead me to follow you all the days of my life. Thank you God for giving me eternal life through your Son Jesus. Amen!’

If understood and sincerely prayed that prayer, then please contact us. One of our team of counsellors would be glad to contact, pray with and offer you further guidance on how you can continue with your new found faith in Jesus. God bless you.

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Copyright Emmanuel Mbakwe 2012©

 

Christmas – God has come to your neighbourhood

Emmanuel Mbakwe

One of the sad aspects of the Christmas season is that for many it can be a time of great isolation, loneliness and total disconnection. In the midst of the festivities, merriment, the celebrations, the giving and receiving of gifts, there are many who are cut off from the joy, warmth and fellowship that the season is meant to represent. Yet at the heart of Christmas is the story of God, Creator of the universe, taking on the form of a vulnerable baby in the person of Jesus to come into a messed-up world, in order to restore the shattered relationship between Himself and His creation.

 

The simple, undiluted essence of the message of Christmas, indeed the message of Christianity, is that God has come to our world – God has come to you in your neighbourhood.

 

Not only has God come to your neighbourhood, He has come specifically for you, looking for you, extending His love and forgiveness, wanting to bring you into a personal relationship with Himself. That is why the Bible says, ‘God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son, that whosoever believes in Him should not die, but have everlasting life’ (John 3:16)

 

If you are reading this piece, my simple message to you is this: that God loves you so much that He gave His gift of love, His son Jesus, to live a perfect sinless life. Jesus was clothed with humanity, felt the pain, the rejection and sadness that you have felt or may be feeling right now. He came where you are and felt what you feel. He lived a perfect sinless life. He went to the cross, and there He paid the ultimate price for your sin and mine. He died on the cross so that you and I might be forgiven. Not only forgiven, but be brought into a personal relationship with God the Father.

 

Jesus came into this world, your neighbourhood, because He cared. The message is simple: God has come to your neighbourhood and to you personally, and invites you into a love relationship, and that relationship will give you a life that will never end. Why not receive God’s offer of love; his greatest gift in this Christmas season.

 

Copyright Emmanuel Mbakwe 2011©

If you have read this article and you are not a Christian, I would like to invite you to receive Christ as Saviour and Lord in your life by praying this prayer:

God in heaven, I acknowledge that I am sinner and deserve to be punished for all the wrongs I have done. I am truly sorry. Thank you for sending your Son Jesus to this world. I believe He lived, died and rose again for my sins. I repent of all past sins and ask you to forgive me because Jesus. I confess and ask Jesus to come into my life and be my Saviour and Lord. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me to obey you and lead me to follow you all the days of my life. Thank you God for giving me eternal life through your Son Jesus. Amen!

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Making Progress – Part Four

Emmanuel Mbakwe

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow in a part of his poem entitled “The Ladder of Saint Augustine” wrote the following words:

The heights by great men reached and kept
Were not attained by sudden flight,
But they, while their companions slept,
Were toiling upward in the night.

The basic thrust of Longfellow’s poem is that to get to make progress or attain heights and stay there requires patience, perseverance, determination, dedication and consistent hard work. It implies that the route to progress and success is far from easy. It is full of challenges, great difficulties and pitfalls. As such it is not for the indolent, slothful or dreamer. Progress will come to those who are resilient, resolute, committed, determined and persistent on their journey on the road called progress.

 

In the first article, we talked about the need for a clear vision or purpose in the pursuit of progress. We said that vision is vital. No vision, no direction or destination.

 

In the second article we spoke of the need to take the vision and work it out into an action plan, which in itself is a series of detailed activities or tasks, which enable the prosecution or delivery of vision and purpose.

 

In the third article we talked about the need to keep reviewing and evaluating progress as one went along. There would be setbacks and challenges along the way and it is always important to keep checking the plan, making necessary adjustments, responding to changes in the environment, in order to ensure that everything is on time and on track.

 

In this last piece, the focus is very much around finishing well. Life is full of examples of those who started well but failed to finish. Someone has said that it is not so much how well you start, but how well you finish. This very much applies to the whole idea of making progress. Making progress is not just about achieving milestones, as important as that is; it is about achieving them with excellence ; doing things to the highest quality standard and doing them and reaching the finish line.

 

On the subject of persistence, perseverance and personal discipline as part of the journey towards the finish line, Benjamin Disraeli said this: The secret of success is constancy to purpose’.

 

Psalm 84 speaks about of a journey or pilgrimage (journey with a spiritual purpose in view). It is a Psalm that speaks about the journey of the people of Israel from their towns, villages and hamlets to the tabernacle of God in Zion, for the annual feasts and festivals and worship of Yahweh. As one reads through there is a sense of the desperate longing, a pining, and a holy appetite for God’s presence. It speaks of the pilgrims making progress, going from strength to strength, until they reach their destination (Psalm 84:7). So, it is about crossing the finish line.

 

So, as we enter the last few weeks of 2011, the questions we must ask ourselves, are: Am I still pursuing the vision? Am I still following through with the plan, making necessary adjustments consistent with the changes in the environment? Is there a spirit of excellence that underscores or underpins what I am doing?

 

Having done that, it is also important to pause from time to time in order to celebrate key milestones. There must be things that have happened, positive things as well as developmental events that have happened since the start of the year or your particular project, which you can look back on and smile, and give thanks for having come through them. By developmental events I mean those character-building happenings, minor, as well as major setbacks, which are designed to help strengthen you on the inside, build courage and increase resilience. Those things are worth using as springboards to celebrate and to build for a much better future.

 

As we come to the end of the year, it is important to look back first and see how far you have travelled. Secondly, look around to see who you can learn from. Thirdly, look within to reflect on your own personal growth to see what else you can do to become a better person. Last, but by no means least, look ahead to see what next you do next, after you have come to the end of the year.

 

Making progress is not a one off exercise; it is a continuous process, where every point of arrival is a point of departure. Don’t stop making progress. Keep striving every day, seeking to become a better person, pursuing your goals with a spirit of excellence, so that you can look back and say ‘this can stand the test of time’ and it can stand the test of time because it is excellent. Having done that share what you have learned with others; especially the next generation; so together we can make progress and build a better, greater and more prosperous future.

 

Copyright Emmanuel Mbakwe 2011©

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All that Glitters…

Emmanuel Mbakwe

One of the things that comes to mind each time I think of my late father, who has gone to be with Jesus, was that he was one for offering quotes, pithy sayings and memorable aphorisms. Born into a society and culture where proverbs and the oral tradition were highly esteemed, he started life as a teacher, which no doubt reinforced his love for words and learning in general. These two influences; firstly, cultural, and secondly, professional, had a significant impact on him, and quite naturally, some of it has rubbed off on me. That I readily confess.

 

One of my father’s regular sayings was, ‘all that glitters is not gold’; the title of this article. This is an old English saying, which conveys a very simple universal message. At the very heart of the message is a warning, a call not to take things at face value, but rather, to query, test, challenge and conduct thorough due diligence before any commitment is made. It is a warning to the impetuous amongst us, and a red light to the naive and gullible. In simple terms it means, what looks expensive and precious is not necessarily so.

 

As I reflect on this, an incident that took place many thousands of years ago but recorded in the Old Testament comes to mind. It is found in Genesis 13, and concerns Abraham and his nephew, Lot. Those who are Bible students will be familiar with the narrative in which we learn that God had called Abram (note he was still called Abram, and not Abraham) out of Ur of the Chaldees, in ancient Mesopotamia (modern Iraq), and asked him to embark on a journey of faith to a land of promise which God would show him.

 

Abram took his young nephew, Lot with him. In the process of time God blessed Abram with much livestock, which in ancient times was a key indicator of wealth. Lot was also greatly blessed.

 

There then arose an argument between the herdsmen of Lot and those of Abram, relating to grazing and water rights. This dispute was so intense that Abram asked his younger relative to choose which part of the vast country that lay before and around them he wished to take. We go on to read that Lot looked and saw the green pastures of the land of Sodom and Gomorrah, and decided that that was where he wanted to go and live.

 

Time passed. Lot it would appear continued to prosper. However, all was not as it seemed. Even though he was making progress materially, spiritually he was in the wrong place; as we go on to see by what happened subsequently. In the process of time trouble arose. Lot was caught between two opposing military confederacies. He was captured and taken as a prisoner of war by one of the warring factions. The news came to Abram, his uncle. He in turn mobilised his own military force, that went in and rescued Lot.

 

Later on, God decided to destroy the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah. Abram interceded with God concerning Lot. God answered Abram’s prayer, as Lot barely got out alive, having been miraculous rescued by angelic messengers. All the material wealth he had amassed was gone; so was his wife who turned into a pillar of salt, having disobeyed the very clear instruction not to look back.

 

What can we learn from Lot’s experience? Many of us make choices based on what we see and what we perceive to be the potential gain, using our natural eyes and our rational mind. There is nothing wrong with that. Indeed we are expected not only to look well before we leap, but to use our minds in the process. However, there is something that lies beyond the natural which we must take into account. God expects us to use our inner eyes. The Bible says that spiritual things are spiritually discerned. We are to be driven not by what we see with our natural eyes but what God sees. This is what we mean by a life of faith. We are to walk by faith and not by sight.

 

Someone has described living by faith as standing where God stands and seeing what He sees; hearing what He says and doing what He asks us to do. This was the difference between Abram and Lot. The former walked by faith, whilst the latter walked by sight, driven by his senses.

 

For Christians reading this piece, whenever you come to make any decision, minor or major, big or small, remember the story of Lot, and the watch word, ‘all that glitters is not gold’. Choose to walk by faith and not by sight.

 

Copyright Emmanuel Mbakwe 2011©

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The power of partnership

Emmanuel Mbakwe

One of my favourite stories in the Bible is the narrative which describes a powerfully compelling and spell-bounding story of total commitment and absolute loyalty. The events described occurred in the days when the nation of Israel was ruled by judges. It is narrated in the book of Ruth (Ruth 1:1-4:13).

 

During that period a famine arose in the land of Israel. It was so severe and life-threatening that a man by the name of Elimelech, who hailed from Bethlehem and was married to a lady named Naomi, decided to remove his family of two sons and his wife to the land of Moab. In the process of time we read that Naomi’s husband died. Her two sons; Marlon and Chilion who had taken wives from among the young women in Moab, also died, leaving two widows; one whose name was Ruth.

 

As time went on, news came to Naomi that the famine in Bethlehem had ceased, and so she decided to return home. Whilst her other daughter in law chose to stay behind with her family in her homeland, Ruth swore an oath of allegiance, loyalty and devotion to Naomi and her God, and insisted on following her mother-in-law back to the land of Israel.

 

Apart from being an incredible and challenging picture of commitment and loyalty, the narrative also teaches us something about the power of partnership. What transpired later in the story shows that whilst Ruth brought her youthful zeal, energy and capacity for hard work, Naomi brought her knowledge of the local environment, customs and tradition, and her experience and wisdom; acting as coach and mentor to Ruth; as the latter went out each day to seek for food and to provide materially for both of them.

 

The story also teaches us other lessons about the essence of partnership; specifically, that it is not for one party to dominate, exploit, use and abuse the other, but rather a relationship based on mutual support and help, so that each will mature and become all that God wants them to be. This to my mind is a principle that applies to any partnership relationship; in marriage, in the church, in business or any form of human endeavour.

 

As the story unfolds, we see that Naomi’s primary desire was not to enslave Ruth, but rather to help her become a woman in her own home and in some way be an instrument or tool through which Ruth would make progress on the road to her destiny. Her purpose was not to keep Ruth as her house help to take care of her in her old age. On the contrary, Naomi’s mission in life was to help nurture the next generation.

 

The power of their partnership was finally demonstrated when we see how the melding and blending of the strengths of Naomi and Ruth helped to move the latter from being a widow who was harvesting barley to scrape a living, to a woman whom God had helped to harvest a husband and son. That is the power of a partnership, a relationship that is based on mutuality and a deep desire to serve and help each other become. It liberates, it empowers and facilitates the realisation of God ordained agenda and destiny for each partner.

 

Copyright Emmanuel Mbakwe 2011©

 

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Making Progress- Part Three

Emmanuel Mbakwe

One of the recurring themes of life is seeing how well intentioned people are in expressing their dreams and aspirations, and yet very often all those great visions remain just where they are; in their minds or on paper. There is a huge gulf in what people say they would do and what they actually do.

 

As one minister friend of mine often says, and which I have touched on in a previous post, the graveyards of this world are full of unfinished novels, symphonies and various masterpieces. Moving from the conceptual to concrete, from mind to market, the drawing board to concrete blocks, is at the heart of this, the third part of our ‘Making Progress’ series.

 

In the first part of this series, we said that if we are going to make progress in life or more specifically in this year, we must begin with a vision, which is a clear mental picture of the preferred future.

 

In the second part we said that the vision needs to be given hands and feet; it needs to be granular, concrete and broken into detailed parts. This is what we call a plan, an instrument that simply takes the big picture and breaks it down into little measureable, manageable chunks; which are then worked through on a day to day, week by week and month by month basis. It is that working through that we want to focus on in this third part.

 

Someone has said that a key element of leadership is planning your work and then working your plan. Some say it is planning the plan and then doing the plan.

I have learned though observation that one of the most challenging parts for most people is that critical first step of starting. Fear, procrastination, external constraints are some of the main barriers to starting. But start you must. In the well-known phrase of a certain global brand, ‘just do it’. That critical first step is absolutely important. It must be taken.

 

Let me explain. In the planning process you work out the specific tasks, and the small, concrete steps and activities that are involved. Having done that, you need to fix the start date and begin the journey. For example, if you want to study, the first thing is to decide what course you want to do. Suppose you want to be a lawyer, you will need to identify the institution, submit an application, after receiving and accepting, begin the process of enrolment and attending classes.

 

The thing about working the plan is that it can be a very challenging process. There will be difficulties, setbacks and disappointments along the way. Pressures will come, the braying voices of doubt and fear will assail. Opposition, from within and without will arise. Sometimes the problems could be due to unrealistic goals and expectations, the non-fulfilment of which could lead to discouragement. Having made a start, the key thing is to refuse to be deflected, even if obstacles come along, and they often do; to stay focused on following through the plan and making any necessary adjustments.

 

Reviewing the plan is also essential. Check activities and progress against the timeline and make sure to adjust where necessary; not forgetting to celebrate success along the way. Something that is very helpful is to find someone or people who have made the same journey and so understand what it takes or those who are going in the same direction. Attach yourself to them; make yourself accountable, so they can be your mentors, coaches or buddies.

 

In the eponymous book of Nehemiah, we read the story of a man who was employed as a cupbearer of the Persian king Artaxerxes I (464-424 B.C.). He heard that the walls of Jerusalem were broken down. In the process of praying, he came by a vision to go back to the land of Judah to repair the walls. His plan included getting permission from the king for protection, timber resource; carrying out a reconnaissance, briefing leaders and getting them aligned and mobilised; before briefing the people and getting the rebuilding process underway. As he began he met with tremendous opposition; from within and from without. What he did was continue to prosecute the plan; making provision to ward off the external threat that had the potential of derailing his programme. Sometimes rubbish got in the way, but he continued. He succeeded in completing the task in a record time of fifty two days.

 

Here are some tips for maintaining getting started and momentum. First, remember that working the plan requires personal discipline. This is a mind-set of the person who wakes up on time, gets going on time and works hard from start to finish. Routine is another word for this. Lack of routine is an enemy of productivity or creativity. Secondly, always think two or three steps ahead. It helps to anticipate and guard against some (not all) the potential problems that lie ahead. Third, pause to reflect. Pause for thought. Look back to learn the lessons of the journey so far, ready to apply those insights to the journey that lies ahead. Also, use your coach, mentor or buddy to keep yourself accountable. They can see what you do not see. Fourth, avoid distractions. They will come, in a multitude of ways. The phone will ring; children, parents, spouses, friends; emails that can wait; the list goes on. Some are unavoidable; deal with them firmly, swiftly and wisely. Fifth, don’t procrastinate – it is the thief of time and the destroyer of destiny. Sixth, and I will stop on this one, take time to rest, relax and recharge (I speak to myself). That should be an integral part of the plan; or else, burnout awaits.

 

We are now past the half way mark of this current year, 2011. What vision did you have at the start of the year? What plans did you put in place? Have you started implementing the plan? What specific actions have you taken? Where are you in terms of your implementation programme?

 

My encouragement to you is, if you are behind, don’t lose heart and stop. Re-group, re-adjust and keep pushing forward. You will get to the end. If you are on track or ahead, congratulations!! Keep going, keep moving forward and get to the end. If you have not yet started, begin. Just as Nehemiah started and succeeded, and many others before you, you too will succeed; if you persevere, if you persist, if you continue.

 

Remember, plan your work and work your plan; consistent, persistent, persevering, and you will surely make progress and get to the end.

 

 

Copyright Emmanuel Mbakwe 2011©

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Riots in Britain – Causes, Consequences and Cure

Emmanuel Mbakwe

I have been prompted to add my voice to what is perhaps the main topic of conversation in the United Kingdom. Fiery arguments, polemics, explanations and denunciation has raged in the aftermath of the most terrifying spate of violence, looting and unrestrained carnage to hit the city streets of Britain in twentieth century Britain.

 

Across the political spectrum, amongst community leaders, historians, commentators, religious leaders, local and national leaders of every persuasion have weighed in with their views as to the reasons for the recent riots which affected a number of the major cities in England. Lives were lost, a horrific example being the three young men in Birmingham who were mowed down by a recklessly driven car. Shops looted and burned down, as violence engulfed and destroyed already fragile relations in a number of the most vulnerable communities in the cities most affected.

 

Initially triggered in north London, on Saturday 6th August 2011, by the shooting of a young man in Tottenham, by a policeman; what unfolded over two further nights, especially in London, Manchester and Birmingham, were scenes never before witnessed in the nation, not even in the Brixton riots of 1981, that of the Broadwater Farm estate in 1985 or any of the other examples of civil disturbance in the past. What we saw, particularly in the first two nights, was a seemingly powerless police force, overwhelmed and swept aside by tidal wave violence, unbridled greed, wanton destruction of property and the brazen ransacking of stores. The other characteristic of what took place is that the damage was the widespread nature of the disturbance, the preponderance of young people and the fact that it cut across race and ethnicity.

 

In the aftermath of the carnage, matters have not been helped by inflammatory utterances by some notable figures. The Prime Minister David Cameron and former Premier, Tony Blair have already clashed as to the causes of the riots. David Cameron’s belief is that that the riots were symptomatic of moral decline in Britain. In an article in the Sunday Express (Sunday 21st August 2011), he had this to say, ‘The greed and thuggery we saw during the riots did not come out of nowhere,” he said. “There are deep problems in our society that have been growing for a long time: a decline in responsibility, a rise in selfishness, a growing sense that individual rights come before anything else’.

Mr Blair has dismissed that notion as ‘highfalutin wail’ which missed the point and ignored the real cause of the problem. In his view there was no problem with moral standards in society generally. What we have, he says, is the existence of a minority of disaffected youth who are outside the mainstream of life in Britain. In an article in the Observer (Sunday 21st August 2011), he said this, ‘Britain, as a whole, is not in the grip of some general ‘moral decline’. He went on to say that young people now were generally more respectable, more responsible and more hard-working than they were when he was young.

 

Similarly opposing views are being expressed across the nation; in newsprint, on radio and television talk shows, in barber shops and meeting places across. The arguments will doubtless rage on. That said, what is self-evident is that that the consequences of the recent riots are far-reaching (I speak as a first hand witness to the Brixton riots of 1981). The wounds in communities across the cities that were affected are still fresh and deep, and will take a long time to heal. What is also clear is the strong divergence of views as to the underlying causes. Judging from the differing perspectives of Prime Minster Cameron and former Premier, Blair, what is evident is that we are a long way from a shared view of underlying causes. This does not augur well for finding a lasting solution.

 

It does not require prophetic insight to come to a conclusion that the nation is socially, economically, morally and spiritually sick. In many ways we are not a well nation. Many speak of ‘Broken Britain’. It is not an exaggeration. Brokenness pervades many areas of national life. My main concern is the moral and spiritual sphere. In my considered view, what has happened is nothing other than a reflection of the failure, the deep rooted failure on the part of all the key institutions whose role is to make for a peaceful, strong, safe and successful community, people or nation. For brokenness, read failure.

 

First, the family has failed. Second, government and politicians have failed. Educators and schools have failed. The police have failed. And dare I say it, the Church (I am part of the church) has failed in many respects. Collectively these institutions have failed. We have failed morally and spiritually. However, this is not the time to apportion blame, but rather to first acknowledge the present condition and then to seek for a solution that goes beyond the superficial and tackles the root causes.

 

Are there answers? The answer is yes, there are! My basic premise is that any attempted solution that seeks to ignore or under-estimate the moral and spiritual dimension is doomed to fail. Indeed, that is what has been done through the years, yet the problem persists. As we read through the Bible, we find that God’s dealings with the nation of Israel sound a timely warning whilst giving a framework and roadmap to recovery. The road to recovery begins with recognition, followed by repentance. To recognise is to note very clearly, to acknowledge the present state; followed by a radical, one hundred and eighty degrees turnaround.

 

God made clear to Israel the best way to live and to enjoy life to the full. Simple – ‘do what I tell you’. When they chose to ignore God, serious consequences followed. God said to them, ‘I have set before you a way of life and a way of death…. therefore choose life that you may live (Deuteronomy 30:19)’. Again He said, ‘The wages of sin is death’ (Romans 6:23). Yet in another place He said, ‘Do not remove the ancient landmarks…’ (Proverbs 22:28).

 

I believe that the root of the social and moral malaise that grips us today in the UK is a deep and growing sense of godlessness. Therefore, any proposed solution that fails to put God right back at the centre of what is proposed will fail. Great Britain needs to recover the sense of God being at the heart of what we do; a re-discovery of the fundamental Judeo-Christian principles that underscored the victories that the nation knew in the past.

In the many arenas of public life, God who has been gagged, marginalised and muzzled. At the very heart of government, lip service is paid. He has been legislated out of our schools; airbrushed from our homes, and derided in the debates in the public square and seats of higher learning. True recovery for us as a nation will only come when we allow God to take His rightful place at the centre of national life. The words of the prophet Jeremiah are apposite at this time of reflection and discussion as to why and what next, following the riots. ‘This is what the LORD says: “Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls.’’ But you said, ‘We will not walk in it.’ (Jeremiah 6:16).

We will do well to seek the ancient paths. The call is to (re)-discover to recover. We must come back to the God of the Bible, if we are to know renewed hope for the future as a people and nation.

Copyright Emmanuel Mbakwe 2011©

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Don’t pass the buck – take responsibility

Emmanuel Mbakwe

One of the most common and disturbing features of human life is the desire to avoid blame, or put another way, accept responsibility when things go wrong. Hence the reason why someone has said that success has many fathers and failure is an orphan. This is not a new phenomenon; it goes back to the dawn of creation.

 

In the third chapter of the book of Genesis we read about the moment when Adam and Eve, the first couple, disobeyed God by eating the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil, something that they had been specifically commanded not to do. When challenged, an interesting scenario played is out; something that has been repeated on countless occasions through the ages. Adam blamed his wife Eve, who in turn blamed the serpent, the devil, for sowing the seed of the idea in her mind.

 

The central point is that both Adam and Eve sought to shift the blame, or pass the buck, instead of accepting personal responsibility for their actions. I am sure as you read this you can think of many instances in life when someone you know (you of course are not included on that list) has simply refused or failed to see that they are responsible for something that has gone awry. Instead, they are in complete denial, even in the face of incontrovertible evidence; and sometimes to the point of naked aggression. You shake your head and shudder. The consequences are often devastating. Trust is broken. Friendships ended. Long term relationships poisoned or irreparably destroyed.

 

Yet all these consequences could have been avoided. The key to a positive outcome in all of these things is to soberly reflect and ask ourselves when something goes wrong, what role we played in the process, and be willing to accept the objectively verifiable conclusion that is reached. When we do that humbly and without being defensive, we enable ourselves to move to a position of nurturing healthy personalities and equally healthy relationships. Simply put, honesty and humility are the two keys to accepting responsibility.

 

So, the next time something goes wrong, and you are the one at fault; don’t pass the buck, but rather take responsibility. Learn from the experience and use it as a platform for growth.

 

Copyright Emmanuel Mbakwe 2011©

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A life that counts for eternity

Emmanuel Mbakwe

One of the phenomenon of the times we that we live in is the frenetic hurry and scurry of our materially driven world; kneeling on at the altar of consumerism and doing obeisance to the god of hedonism. There is an all-consuming focus on the here and now.

 

The fundamental cosmology that drives such lifestyle is totally at odds with what God has shown us in His word, the Bible. A careful reading reveals that that there is far greater purpose for which we have been created, so beyond and above the things we do in time is a far greater reality that lies beyond the realm of time. The Bible clearly shows us that we have been created for a purpose that goes beyond the realms of time.

 

The Bible message is that Jesus came to show us that purpose. In Him we see the face of God, and through Him what we do in time can count for eternity, as we align our lives to the following truths:

 

  • First, if we want our lives to count for eternity, like Jesus who submitted and surrendered his life to His Father in service and sacrifice, through His death on the cross; we must do the same. This is a life of humility and self-abnegation (Philippians 2:1-11).

 

  • Secondly, Jesus’ life was one of sacrificial service, ultimately leading to a gruesome substitutionary death on the cross, giving his life for all mankind. We must be willing to do the same. We are called to offer our lives as a living sacrifice and like a corn of wheat, fall to the ground and die to selfish ambition and pride (Romans 12:1; John 12:24).

 

  • Thirdly, Jesus lived a life that was radically transformational. He changed everything that he came into contact with. He broke man-made rules and the boundaries put up by attitudes of prejudice – against the poor, the broken, the marginalised, minority groups, women, and the disenfranchised. We must do the same.

 

  • Last, but by no means least, through his life of surrender, of sacrifice and service , Jesus advanced the purposes of His Father here on earth, ultimately fulfilling his own life’s mission. Everything that he did was directed towards his Father’s work and will.

 

So, if you want your life to count for eternity, follow the footsteps of Jesus. The starting point of this journey is to acknowledge; believe that Jesus is the Saviour of the world, who died on the cross, taking on himself the penalty for your sin. Confess Him as your Saviour, worship and serve Him as Lord. If you do so, your life will surely count for eternity.

 

Copyright Emmanuel Mbakwe 2011©

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